In September 2025, relations between the Indian and Pakistani cricket teams hit a low over the Asia Cup. India, led by Suryakumar Yadav, refused to engage in the customary pre- and post-match handshakes with Pakistan—including at the coin toss and in trophy ceremonies.
The decision was politically charged. Indian players stated that the snub was meant as a tribute to victims of the Pahalgam terror attack and as solidarity with Indian armed forces. Pakistan reacted with criticism, calling the move unsportsmanlike.
A Gesture That Spoke Louder
Fast forward to October 14, 2025, at the Sultan of Johor Cup—an under-21 international hockey tournament held in Johor Bahru, Malaysia. Before the start of the India vs Pakistan match, after the playing of national anthems, players from both sides exchanged high fives, signalling goodwill.
The gesture continued a bit beyond just the start. After a hard-fought draw (3-3), the teams shook hands—something absent in the recent cricketing encounters.
Why It Matters
This isn’t just about a game recap; it’s about what small acts can do in bridging divides:
- Sportsmanship over politics. The high-five and handshake, though modest, contrast sharply with the earlier refusal to engage in even basic courtesies. It shows that even in times of tension, sports can offer a platform for reconciliation.
- Youth leading by example. The teams involved were junior hockey players. Their actions send a message: future generations might overcome animosity better if given the chance.
- A reset moment. After India’s cricket team declined the Asia Cup handshake and even refused to accept the trophy from ACC/Pakistan Cricket Board’s Mr. Mohsin Naqvi, this act in hockey provides a different narrative—one that leans toward respect.
Perspectives & Reactions
- The Pakistan Hockey Federation reportedly advised its players to remain composed, to avoid unnecessary emotional confrontations, and to respond with gestures of respect even if unreciprocated.
- Many media outlets noted the contrast between this hockey moment and the tennis or cricket “handshake controversies,” suggesting that this might soften the public mood.
What It Doesn’t Solve
Of course, a high-five and handshake don’t erase deep political, historical or diplomatic tensions. The motives, timing, and symbolism will be scrutinized. Some will see it as too little, or symbolic rather than substantive.
But what it does show is that even in tense times, small acts of courtesy can open paths for cleaner, more respectful competition.
